Divorce

Soooooooooo.......

This is hard to say, but I'm getting divorced. Here the last few days, I feel like I'm making a mistake. I felt like this when I first asked for it. I'm still not 100% sure that this was the smartest thing to do. I feel like that we should have done counseling before just jumping into a divorce. 

I can deal with the fact that Patrick has a felony on his background. All. Day. Long. I couldn't handle the fact that I found pictures of him posing in ladies lingerie. Then found out that he was sending them to other people. Mainly men. 

So I did something petty. I regret that. A lot. But what has happened has happened. And I can't go back. 

I also couldn't take how he spoke to me. How he treated me. How he would ignore me if he was even just a tiny bit pissed off. It didn't matter if it was at me, or other people. He also was drinking heavily. And he wasn't slowing down. He was scaring me. He was drinking like my dad and uncle did. 

I'm just run down. I'm tired of the disrespect. I have a man that treats me like a dang queen now. He's a great man. Very honest. Very sweet. A gentleman. Something that Patrick hasn't done in MANY MANY years. 

He opens ALL doors for me, including my car door. No, he doesn't drive due to a disability. He has seizures. So I drive, which I don't mind. He takes care of me in other ways. I'm finally feeling like I'm safe, loved, heard, respected. My stomach issues are finally starting to disappear. He doesn't feel real, but he is. 

I'm worried that he's going to leave me, or change from who he is currently. He has reassured me time and time again that he's not going anywhere. That he's not changing. That he is real. He's old fashioned. He's everything that I've been asking Patrick to be. He's everything that I've been praying for. He's everything that I want in a man. I'm terrified that he's too good to be true. He is also the first man that I've driven an hour to. 

Why?

Because I want to. Because of how he makes me feel. Because he loves me, and I love him. I never once thought that I'd fall THIS fast for someone. But I have. 

I can't wait until my divorce is finalized. I actually want to spend the rest of my life with this man. He's more of a man than my ex is.