I'm waiting 5-6 years before I even have kids of my own. And yes, I know that "accidents" can happen. Almost always does.
But I hope that those "accidents" don't happen to me.
Why? Because I have several things that I want to do. One of which is go to school for nursing. Another is is that I would like to travel around some before I start popping out babies. I know that last statement is kinda odd, but it's just a phrase that I use. I love kids, don't get me wrong. I just don't want to have any right now. I'm 25 (I'll be 26 this June). I, personally, am not ready for kids.
So I will be waiting 5-6 YEARS before considering becoming pregnant. Some people may look down on me and question me on why. Other's may pressure me into having a baby before I am ready for that resonsibility. Like I stated before, I would like to go to school before kids come along. My fiance is supportive of that decision. No one else in either family knows of that decision. They won't know unless they specifically ask us. I will be mean about it, too, if they choose to pressure me into having a baby.
I know good and well a lot of people will question my waiting that many years. I know some will look down on me for it. I know that others will even try to pressure me into having a child before I am ready for one. My fiance and I are the ONLY ones that know when WE are ready for a baby. Then and only then will we start trying for one. It's my body...not any one else's body.
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