Please don't feel bad for me
Hey everyone!!! As my title says, please do NOT feel bad for me. I am still kind of figuring out my thoughts and feelings about this divorce. So, earlier this month, we had a default hearing due to Patrick not signing or anything for the paperwork. My lawyer and the judge asked me some questions. Patrick also did not show up for court. We do still talk on occasion, but if he brings up money, etc, I refuse to say anything. I do not want a thing I say to come back and bite me in the ass. I also moved myself off of his phone plan. He hasn't paid it in several months. He wants me to pay some of it (which I probably will here soon). It's roughly $1645 at this moment in time. This isn't the first time this has happened either. I am also feeling indifferent about the whole divorce. Yes, still. There have been days where I feel guilty for even WANTING one. Then there are other days that I'm like, "Yes, you did the right thing!!!" I do miss him sometimes. I r...